Children's Understanding
- Infants and toddlers cannot understand death although they can sense loss
- A change in their daily routine (for example, bath time, meals, sleeping) can be upsetting
- Separation from the parent or usual caregiver may increase fear
Common Grief Reactions & Behaviors
- Increased crying
- Need for more touching and holding
- Increased restlessness and irritability
- A change in behaviors (for example, more temper tantrums, showing intense feelings)
- Change in sleeping or eating patterns
How You Can Help
- Provide simple and honest explanations
- Tell the child where you are going and when you will return
- Keep normal daily routines
- Provide physical, comforting, and loving contact
- Provide a favorite toy or blanket for comfort
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